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Online Christian Marriage Counseling

And Couples Life Coaching

Online Christian marriage counseling is an excellent resource for some couples. It all depends on your preferences and your marriage relationship.

Working with a Christian marriage counselor or coach over the phone, through email or online chat provides freedom from scheduling difficulties and saves travel time.

Christian-Life-Coaching.org applies Biblical principles to what is hopefully the most important relationship you will ever have with another human being.

...that's because relationship is not just something you have... it is what results directly from your actions. Our Biblical marriage counseling and couples coaching services look at the parallel of God's actions in pursuing relationship with us.

See the beautiful description of His active role in our relationship from Romans 8:

"For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son...And having chosen them, he called them to come to him...and he promised them his glory."

Rom 8:28-30 (NLT)

In the same way, our marriage relationships take action. But relationships are reciprocal. They go two ways. God does His part, but it's lost on us if we don't respond.

Just as our relationship with God is built on our response to His actions, so husband-and-wife relationships must be two-way and reciprocal. Relationship only exists and is healthy when there is a two-way effort. We can't begin to take anything from our spouse until we have learned to give

Christian Marriage Counseling Questions

Before looking to have our own needs met, let's look at our spouse's needs. Here are some Christian marriage counseling questions to ask ourselves:

- Does my part in our marriage make married life better than single life would be for my spouse?

- What are my spouse's needs for emotional intimacy, and am I filling those needs?

- What are my spouse's needs for physical intimacy, and am I filling those needs?

- Do our interactions leave my spouse feeling validated and affirmed in his or her role as a man or woman?

- Is my spouse getting the respect from me that he or she deserves as a child of God?

- Do our interactions leave my spouse feeling beat-up and tired, or secure and loved?

This is not a comprehensive list, of course. However, it's an excellent place to begin Christian marriage counseling. You may be able to answer some of these questions on your own, but others may take some communication with your spouse.

This type of communication will be the glue that holds your marriage relationship together. Many of us can testify that things fall apart quickly (or blow up!) without it.

Many couples have years of bad communication habits ingrained in their relationships. If this is the case, bringing up these questions may be the recipe for a fight!

If even these basic attempts at communication are dangerous territory for you and your spouse, I would love to work with you both as a couple.

My passion is for seeing God work His miracle of relationship in Christian couples through Christian marriage counseling.